Love of ages

       An essay on falling in love  I asked a counselor is falling in love a bad thing. He said we'll the word falling itself describes the bad fall. Falling in love is bad and I wondered if it's really that bad why do people fall in love, or it's our culture that avoids this.  In our culture, love is avoided like leprosy at the Prime time of youth. Women in their youth should be chaste and wait. If they fall in love they considered to have become impure from their mind. Even, when the poor girl has no relationship physically  How does this love happen?  Does it start from the mind, brain or the paradoxical soul initiated it???  Love sparks?? Love at first sight??? Is this due to western influence?? Or Indians never fell in love before?? Bollywood, Hollywood influence?? Hormonal influence?? Strange stigmas .... Well I must inform that this love is not about the love after marriage but before marriage that I'm about to talk about. I honesty fell for a guy bec